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Mommy……….Is this for Poor People?

While dropping boxes of noodles and canned goods into the donation box marked “Feed the Hungry” a little boy assisting his mom asked, “Mommy is this for poor people?”

As a parent, how would you answer this question? A simple yes is correct especially given that the state of being poor is generally considered to be lacking the funds to support one’s self. However, what does this little boy, who may never have experienced hunger or the challenge to stay warm at night, really think being poor means? Does he think that everyone who is poor now has always been poor? What do the faces of the poor look like? Would his perception of the word poor change if he knew the little boy he plays with across the street is getting help from a local food pantry? Unless he has spent time with people lacking financial means he might conjure up an image of citizens who cannot do tasks themselves, or he might even be a bit fearful of the mystery. If we wanted to take the time and explain the concept of poor to the little boy, we might ask him “Can poor people be poor but be rich too?”

There are many blessings to be counted: we see them all the time in the families that visit the Come to me Food Pantry.

What about having a wealth of love and support at home? Psychological professionals have noted that a healthy home is a safe refuge after a long, laborious day. It should be a sanctuary where you are fully accepted and therefore, you may speak freely about the good and bad happenings of your day. Most importantly, home is a place where you can be appreciated for you. In the food pantry, we frequently hear stories about the patience a husband or wife has maintained with one another during difficult times. We see how awesome they are with their children, even though the stresses are heavy. On a daily basis, being rich in love and support can mean a person has a safe place to land after a long day: they can show vulnerabilities and receive support. A loving family can significantly contribute to one’s daily quality of life.

Adding to this, we see long term situations and financial difficulty due to critical illnesses. For example, we see one partner quitting their job to stay home and care for family members with severe illnesses. With these long term situations, we see that they love each other and know they are making the right decision. Most importantly, these families never complain; they accept their chosen path with a plethora of courage.

Also, what about being rich with a good sense of humor? During rough times, this person can not only laugh at oneself for having done something stupid, but they can make other family members and friends laugh at their own mistakes too. Maybe, the person with the big sense of humor is rich with the world. We are able to not only empathize with their families, but we laugh with them too.

What about being rich with values and integrity? We occasionally hear in the news of a financially troubled individual who turned over to the authorities, the envelope full of cash he found in a parking lot. Chances are, he feels pride instead of guilt, knowing he knows he acted out of honestly, and was concerned about the loss of the other person. Maybe this is why he is sometimes hungry; however, the spark in his eyes is there because integrity prevailed.

Of course, the big one is rich in faith. We see this often in the food pantry and these are the people that carry a strong trust in God. They truly believe they are being heard by God the Father through prayer. This trust allows confidence and peace to prosper through the difficult journey they know they are strong enough to handle. It is amazing how big and bright a person’s can smile be, even during the most difficult times, when they trust in God.

Sometimes, people rich in money, cannot smile.

Renee James
Lead Advocate, Fishers UMC Food Pantry
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"When are you going to call me Steve?"

I still remember this conversation. I remember where it happened, what was going on, it was a day my relationship with Steve changed. When I was a freshman in college Steve was Professor Hertzog, the man who taught religious history for a one hour class three times a week. In my freshman year, that's pretty much all he was to me, the guy I saw every couple of days up front talking at me. Outside of occasionally raising my hand I had no interaction with him.

The question above happened almost four years later. I was a month from graduating but I still called him Professor Hertzog around people, Pastor Steve when with friends. In the past four years we had moved beyond a professor/student relationship. I had taken more classes with him, participated in school activities, but also had dinner with him and his family, helped him in classes, he became my faculty adviser, when potential churches called my college he talked with me about it, we had some hard conversations about friends and ministry, I even went on a mission trip to Africa with him. And now, just before graduation when our roles would be officially changing (I would no longer be a student) he was really asking for a change in the relationship too.

I was reminded of this in my readings for Advent this past year. I read through a series of sermons by St. Bernard from almost 1,000 years ago. It was interesting seeing the birth of Christ from a much different perspective than our current American twenty-first century worldview. And in it he mentioned how Jesus changes our relationship with God.

In the Old Testament we are seen as God's children. In the New Testament we are seen as the Bride of Christ. Our relationship with our children is much different than our relationship with our spouse (hopefully). The people of the Old Testament followed rules and order and viewed God as someone almost aloof who could only be talked to through a priest, much like a child sees a parent. But in the New Testament it was less about the rules and more about the relationship, being able to talk directly to God, His Holy Spirit being with us and an active part of our everyday lives. Because our roles changed our relationship changed.

This is the heart of Easter. A change in relationship. We are no longer held captive by sin but can be forgiven so we can have a new relationship with God, a direct one that allows us to see His love more fully. I pray this Easter season we would all take advantage of that, see Jesus in a new light, live into our new roles with a wonderful new relationship with Him. Don't settle for less, be the Bride of Christ this Easter season.

Troy Richards
Director of Sr. High Student Ministries & Modern Worship

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